Kids and Fires

Kids and Fires


Who Sets Fres? Big Fires Start Small

   Fires are the number-one cause of death in the home for children under five, and the National Fire Protection Association estimates that more than one third of those children died in fires started by themselves or by other young children. Fire is the number-one cause of death in the home for children ages 5 to 14. Roughly a child under age 15 starts one of every seven fatal structure fires. In 1994, 55 percent of arson arrests involved juveniles.

Who sets fires?

   Some children engage in fire-play out of curiosity, without realizing the dangers. Some use fire-play as a bid for attention. Children in crisis may set fires intentionally, as a way of acting out their anger or frustration. With proper intervention, children who set fires can be helped.

Playing with fire

   Children are naturally curious, and fire is fascinating. If a child express a natural interest in fire, don't overreact.
Never leave a child alone with fire    All children should be taught that matches and lighters are tools, not toys, and that fire is dangerous. Always keep matches and lighters up high, out of reach of children, preferably in a locked cabinet. Never leave a child alone with a burning candle, cooking fire, fireplace, campfire, barbecue, or any other open flame.
   Older children should be taught, with adult supervision, to use fire properly. Have them help you use fire responsibly through such safe activities as blowing out candles or putting charcoal in a barbecue grill before you light it.
Do not try to scare children away from fire. Teach them to respect it just as you would teach them to respect traffic or power tools.

Crisis fire starters

   All young people share the negative behavior characteristics associated with setting fires to some extent, most of whom never set a fire. In general, experts agree that setting a fire, like other antisocial behavior, is often a way of getting attention, exercising power, or acting out the need for help.
Playing With Fire    The "crisis fire setter" is typically a school-aged child, usually male, in his or her early or midteens or younger. He or she may be upset about a crisis or major change in his or her life (a death, move, or divorce, for example), or feel confused, angry, frustrated, or powerless for some other reason. Sometimes, he or she comes from an abusive household. The potentially deadly fires these young people set may be symbolic and even self-destructive - the result of complex family, social, and psychological circumstances.
   Such children need help. Their fire setting is a symptom of a problem, not the problem itself. But it must be stopped. Parents, teachers, school administrators, and neighbors should step in when they suspect troubled children of using fire as a weapon.

When to seek help

Teach Fire Safety    If your child plays with matches or lighters and doesn't respond to your efforts to redirect his or her interest, the child may benefit from professional counseling. Parents who suspect, or find evidence, that their child is setting even small fires should approach the child with concern for the potentially fatal consequences of fire setting. They should also reassure the child about any crisis that may be provoking the behavior, listen carefully when the child describes his or her feelings, and get professional help.

Where to find help

Crisis fire starters may have trouble talking about their problems and feelings with parents or counselors. There are special programs that can help. Many schools and fire departments offer programs to help children who play with fire or set fires. Contact your local fire department or school counselor for details. Social service agencies can help a child and his or her families deal with the underlying problems that motivate crisis fire setting. SOS FIRES: Youth Intervention Programs

It's the adult's responsibility

Store Flammabale Materials in a Locked Place Set a good example by following basic fire-safety practices in the home and teach your children to respect fire.


National Fire Protection Association

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